two day intensive marriage reboot

 The Reboot Retreat is a private 2-day intensive experience directly with us, your marriage coaches. You and your spouse will work exclusively with us for two consecutive full days to identify where you have been, define where you are currently, and discover where you want to go together. This Reboot Retreat is designed for a wide variety of marriages whether you are in crisis and are on the brink of divorce, a struggling marriage who needs a unified vision, a complacent marriage who needs a boost, a good marriage that wants to become great, or anyone in between!

what is a Reboot retreat?

where will we stay?

You will spend two days with us in our cabin in the beautiful San Bernardino Mountains, California.

You can drive up or fly into either Ontario (ONT) or Santa Ana (SNA) airports and we will pick you up.

No need to worry about a thing. We will send a questionnaire out before you arrive so that we can feed you well and have all of your favorites here to make you comfortable!

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When you arrive, we will have a meal waiting and we will prep you for the evening and the next few days together. A night of relaxation, lighting a fire, chatting and making you feel right at home.

what can we expect?

introduction day

9:00 AM – 6:00 PM

On day one of your reboot we will help you identify what you really want for: Your Marriage and Family, Career and Calling, Faith, Relationship with others, Finances, Communication, Intimacy, and your overall Lifestyle and Life Rhythm. We also will provide ways to bridge the gaps in your relationship.

Every Reboot weekend is different but we should finish the day with a shared meal. You’ll have a few things to reflect on and possible ‘homework.’ So, in preparation for day two, it’ll be an early night.

We will offer breaks during the day for snacks, lunch and a quick walk, then in the evening we will retreat and part ways by 7:30 pm to provide you time for reflection, conversation, and time to unwind.

day one

9:00 AM -6:00 PM

We'll begin day two with breakfast and a quick devotional at 8:00am and then dive into the following:

The power of Your Combined Purpose to provide you with clarity and a unified GOD-centered point of connection

Unpack the Power of Vision and lead you to Create Your Combined Vision of not only where you want to be, but how to get there as well.

Together, you’ll Discover the power you each hold to ensure your desired outcome and walk away with a new way for living your happily-ever after, together.

We’ll also provide tools to help you protect your purpose.  Steps to move towards and prioritize your purpose. And a personalized process that will help you manage for and safeguard what matters most in order to build a lasting legacy.

day two

a lot!

We know it sounds like a lot … and … it is! BUT … it is an extremely powerful, proven, and being covered by our prayers. God is inviting you into partnership with Him for your purpose.

We are committed to pray, lead, and serve you with everything we have to help you experience a marriage reboot that you’ll carry into every area of life!

we're ready


price includes:


14 hours of counseling with two coaches ($2,100 value)

Two nights of accommodations in the san bernardino mountains ($800 value)

five full meals plus drinks and snacks ($300 value)

married for a purpose Binder & materials ($500 value)

three "after care" check in calls with brian & Linda ($450 value)

lifetime access to exclusive married for a purpose community platform (only available to past attendees)


Children or Career Conflicts

Blended Family

Financial Strains

Intimacy and Sexual Issues



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ready to reboot?

If you're interested in attending one of our Reboot marriage intensives, please fill out the form below and we will contact you regarding dates and details.


meet brian and
linda seitz

We're Brian and Linda Seitz.
Joyously, we've spent over a decade as Christian Lay Counselors and as leaders in Marriage Ministry. ​​

We desire to care for you by sharing our experiences through books, videos and social media content.  

We strive for personal connection with you via speaking events related to marriage, family, parenting, Christian life and Law Enforcement events.

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